Death isn’t something you can really “be ready for.” I know that in some circumstances your loved one may have been sick for a certain period of time and you may somehow be “prepared” for the inevitable passing; but even then I’m still not sure how knowing can prepare you for living without that person. …
One Year Later…
…What is Grief? First of all…no one knows. Second of all…everyone knows. Thirdly… only when you know, you know. That made sense? No, right? Yeah… to me either at first but with time…it kinda started making sense to me. I’ll start by saying this. Grief is a lot of things but one thing it’s NOT …
On Losing My Dad.
How can you put into words something that still feels surreal? A reality you wake up to every day, and have to remind yourself that “this is REALLY real…REALLY” How can you share a heartbreak that touches the very intricate makings of your soul? A loss so deep that you fear you may never be …
Three Years & Counting
Three years? Where? Another year has come and I am still struggling (some days) to deal with my Dad’s loss. Man… grief is really a trip! I wrote this for my Dad on the third anniversary of his passing. It really tells of how grief shows up differently on different days. But guess what…that’s okay. …
Don’t Forget To Remember Yourself
You ever get so complacent in a space you just block out everything else? To the point where you brain is just defaulting to a negative answer when it comes to anything new? So, the weapon formed against me was formed by me…myself…and I? Got slapped in the face with this recently, and I gotta …
Why Japan?
Namaste Y’all! Many people always ask me “Why Japan?” So, I decided to make a little list of reasons why I love it here. This isn’t everything, as I’m sure I probably forgot some things, but it’s a start. And as I collect more, maybe there can be a part two…or probably become a series …
Tokiwaso Manga Museum
For my birthday this year, I got treated to a special once-in-a-lifetime event. I visited the Tokiwaso Manga Museum in Toshima City, Tokyo, Japan. Listennnnnnnnn… as an anime/manga fan, I was REELING with excitement, awe and just pure joy! I was a kid in a candy store, but the candy was history and the store …
Kers & The Kiddos
What’s good warriors!? Can’t believe its already the end of October! Massive gratitude going out for all the support and feedback I got since the relaunch a few weeks ago. I love y’all mucho for rocking with me! My Dad Trilogy has gotten so much amazing feedback that I think I’ll have a couple Kersversations …
Dear Tokyo
Let me just start by saying, God & The Universe always has my back! And that’s why I become more and more fearless by the day. So here’s the thing. When I decided to move to Japan, I requested from my employers to live in a smaller city (NOT Tokyo). I wanted to live in …
Let’s Go To Nagoya Castle!
Alright! So, as you may know by now. I am all about immersing myself in the culture, and castles are one of my favorite ways to do so. To me they are the most beautiful, educational and fascinating museums. Virtually a “step-into-a-time-capsule experience” And they are really well preserved in Japan. They really do an …